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A lot is said about the power of networking. Whether we realize it or not, it is something we do every day—sometimes without even thinking about it. But let us be honest: for some people, networking feels effortless. For others, it is awkward, intimidating, or even downright uncomfortable.

The good news is that there is no single “right” way to do it. What works for one person does not work for another. The key is finding an approach that feels natural while also pushing yourself just a little outside your comfort zone.

Why Does Networking Matter?

We all know networking is important, but sometimes we need a reminder of just how important:

• 35% say a casual LinkedIn message sparked a new career opportunity

• 61% of professionals say regular online interactions have led to job opportunities (LinkedIn)

• 80% believe networking is essential to career success (LinkedIn)

It is not just about landing a job. It is about learning. It is about staying informed. It is about building relationships with people we can trust and grow with.

Networking helps us identify new opportunities and secure them. It allows us to explore career options, learn, and become informed. We build a stable of trusted professionals with whom we can converse and lean on. In turn, we help others find their next big opportunity.

So, How Do You Network Effectively?

Start with a Goal. Before reaching out to someone, ask yourself:

• Are you exploring new job opportunities?
• Do you want insights from industry experts?
• Are you looking to collaborate on a project?
• Are you hoping to connect with someone at a specific company?

Having a clear intention helps guide your conversations.

• Perfect Your Personal Pitch. What makes you stand out? How do you introduce yourself in a way that is engaging and memorable? Think of it as your 30-second story—not just what you do but what excites you. What differentiates you from others, and what makes you memorable
• Reconnect with People You Already Know. Networking does not always mean meeting strangers. Former colleagues, classmates, and mentors are all part of your network. Have you built a relationship with any of them? Start there.
• Engage Online (Even If It Feels Uncomfortable). Not a fan of posting? No problem. Start small by commenting on a post, sharing an interesting article, or celebrating someone else’s success. Dip your toes in gingerly, comment on a post or two, and work up to posting your own articles. Nothing has to be perfect. Like learning to ride a bike, our feet eventually stay on the pedals.
• Help First, Ask Later. The best way to build strong connections? Give before you ask. Offer an introduction, share a resource, or send a word of encouragement. Continually seek ways to help a contact, providing introductions, advice, and even leads. People remember those who add value.
• Show up (In Person or Online). Industry events, webinars, and coffee chats are great ways to meet like-minded professionals. Actively attend virtual or in-person events. They are wonderful ways to meet professionals in your chosen vocation or avocation. Try to have some prepared questions or comments on the topic as discussion points. After a meeting, be sure to follow up with a thoughtful, personalized message.
• Stay in Touch. Networking is not a one-time thing. Check in with people periodically—not just when you need something. A simple “Hey, I saw this article and thought of you” goes a long way. Mark your calendar with reminders for regular check-ins.
• Never start a conversation with an ask. When you do feel comfortable with an ask, be clear and concise.
• Always, always show gratitude. Be appreciative in a meaningful way.

A Few Golden Rules to Keep in Mind

• Be fully present and actively listen. Put your phone away and maintain eye contact, truly hearing what someone says rather than planning your next response. Active listening builds trust and shows respect—qualities that are the foundation of any meaningful professional relationship.
• Be mindful of other people’s time—be concise and intentional. Whether in a brief chat or a lengthy meeting, respect the fact that everyone’s time is valuable. Come prepared with targeted questions, stay on topic, and know when to wrap up a conversation gracefully.
• Always be prepared to speak. You never know when an opportunity to share your expertise might arise. Organize your thoughts and be ready to articulate your ideas clearly when called upon.
• Focus on quality over quantity. A few meaningful connections will serve you better than dozens of superficial ones. Invest your energy in building relationships with depth rather than aimlessly collecting business cards.
• Be polished and professional, both on screen and in person. Your appearance and environment matter whether you are networking virtually or face-to-face. A professional presentation shows respect for yourself and for those you are connecting with.
• Like the seeds we plant in our gardens or apartment windows, networking is an investment for the future. We have to nurture our networks and relationships.

Networking is a Lot Like Dating…

Networking and dating share remarkable similarities. Both require authenticity, patience, and courageous vulnerability. Both flourish when built on mutual interest and respect, rather than immediate personal gain.

Think about it. You would not propose on a first date, right? Similarly, you would not ask for a job introduction from someone you have just met. Much like relationships, professional connections take time to build. If your first conversation is all about what someone can do for you, it will not go far.

All relationships grow from genuine curiosity, and just like dating, networking rewards those who listen more than they speak. Whether you are seeking a career opportunity or a life partner, a solid foundation of mutual trust is necessary. So invest in the relationship, as it will take time to develop. Show up authentically. Express an interest in the other person. When you do this, wonderful things can happen.

Final Thought

Networking is not just about finding opportunities—it is about creating them. The more you nurture your relationships, the more doors will open, sometimes in ways you never expected.

For all the do’s of networking, there are equally important don’ts. Do not dominate conversations or make them all about you. Do not disappear after getting what you need. Do not forget to follow through on promises made. Do not connect with people only when you need something. And most importantly, do not try to be someone you are not—authenticity remains the cornerstone of meaningful professional relationships. Like any worthwhile endeavor, effective networking requires balance, thoughtfulness, and a genuine desire to build connections that enrich both parties.

So, here is the question: What is the best networking advice you have ever received? Drop it in the comments—I would love to hear your thoughts!