Professional success seems to mean different things to different people. I wonder if there is an overall right answer, or does it always depend on the individual? Could professional success mean climbing the corporate ladder to reach the top? Financial windfall? How about keeping our values intact while others compromise? Or maybe it’s the satisfaction that comes from seeing others succeed because of our guidance?
For some people, professional success is simply the combo of experiencing financial health, doing work they enjoy, and feeling fulfilled with their life choices. But isn’t it interesting how this definition can changes over time depending on where we are in life? Priorities change, which in turn throws off the weights and balances.
How Do We Measure Success?
Professional success can be measured in a qualitative or quantitative way, but no matter the method, people do tend to define it through the following lenses:
- Getting that promotion or landing an exciting new job
- Mastering skills that make them an authority in their field
- Finding that sweet spot between career ambitions and personal life
- Making a difference in ways that align with what matters to them
- Having the freedom to control their time and decisions
Would the results of considering yourself through these lenses confirm your definition of success, or might they raise additional questions?
The Success Paradox
We see people every day who appear to have all the trappings of professional success—the title, the office, and the salary—but inside, they’re quite unhappy. Does this mean they are still successful? Now look within. Is your professional success bringing satisfaction and happiness to your life, or could it be adding to your stress and negatively impacting your personal relationships? Are you missing out on time that could be spent with family and friends? Are you too slammed to enjoy yourself, to pursue hobbies or avocations?
On the other hand, perhaps you are fueled by the fact that you are making a positive difference. You might be reflecting back on those moments you have been able to help someone. Rereading their thank-you notes can reinforce that your “good work” has provided a sense of fulfillment. Take the time to slow down and as yourself if your work values still align with your personal values.
The real question isn’t whether you’ve reached some arbitrary benchmark of success, but whether your professional choices are serving your authentic self. What’s your definition of success today? And how might it change tomorrow? I would love to hear your personal anecdotes in the comments below.
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